Wandering Aussie
bobbyfreakouthour replied to your post: Oh I give up…
Dont date. Just be active in the community and meet people. Be social, ask to spend time with people. :)
Yeah that’s what I’ve been doing. My biggest annoyance is, there is a sub-culture in the gay community that loves bigger / bearded guys ie. bears. I have no problem with this in general, but I tend to attract guys who like that look.
They also don’t want me to change. Which I’m not going to do for anyone. My fitness/health etc is more important than that. So situations like this will continue to occur.
Like I said I dipped my toe back in the water, and for now I’m done with it. Just going to keep concentrating on what I want to do, and see what comes along in time.
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bobbyfreakouthour said:
It’s a cliche, but that’s so the way to be :) just live life and meet people :) bears, cubs, polar and panda bears… Tops or bottoms it doesn’t matter :)
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